Whether you are starting your fertility journey alone or with a
partner, it can be very challenging emotionally, physically and
financially. What is such an endearing time for many people not
struggling with fertility issues is often surrounded by hurt and
disappointment for those that do encounter these obstacles. Most
couples assume they will be able to conceive relatively
effortlessly. When this does not happen, the couple then begins a
process of invasive tests and procedures that were previously
foreign concepts. During this experience, seeking out professional
help from a counselor is often advised and recommended.
A professional counselor can help you process the emotions this
stirs up and help you identify positive coping strategies for stress
reduction. Every couple, or individual, going through fertility
treatment is encouraged to have a psychological evaluation completed
by a professional counselor during the initial stages of treatment.
The purpose of the evaluation is to prepare patients for the process
they are about to undergo, to identify and discuss issues they may
not have considered previously, to screen for individuals that may
need additional therapy before continuing the process, and to
identify any psychological aspects that may adversely affect the
infertility treatment.
Many couples struggle with blaming one another for the fertility
problems they encounter. This can lead to conflict and hurt in the
relationship and can adversely affect the outcome. A counselor can
help you to identify these negative cycles and help you to approach
treatment with a positive mindset. Counseling also helps the couple
define their expectations and articulate their fears or concerns
related to the process. It allows for the couple to feel more
cohesive and bonded during treatment and after. For patients going
through treatment without a partner, counseling provides an outlet
to discuss fears and expectations with someone other than family
members or friends. Some individuals are hesitant to start
counseling before things become intolerable; however, counseling is
very beneficial to begin prior to feeling overwhelmed.
While presenting symptoms are unnecessary to start counseling, if
you are experiencing any of the following, please seek professional
help immediately.
Tara
Joyner, LPC